Showing posts with label dad. Show all posts
Showing posts with label dad. Show all posts

Jul 25, 2017

10 Years Since My Dad Died


(I started this back in April 2017, but let life get in the way of finishing it. So, I am finishing it now, before another 10 years goes by.)

...10 years...

My Dad passed away on April 28, 2007. That seems so long ago and like yesterday all at the same time. One of the hardest things about him not being here comes from our mutual love of gaming. He and I would upgrade our computers at about the same time, just so we could play whatever the latest game we both enjoyed could run on them.

We had different tastes in games for the large part, but some games we enjoyed playing independently but would share stories, watch each other play, etc.

Dad loved modding. He would get the latest FIFA, NHL Hockey, or just about any other EA Sports game just so he could go online and find the real-world add-ons he could download and install. He especially loved making FIFA as realistic as he could. Back in the early 2000's, he even downloaded the Spanish voice over (more that 600MB over dial-up) just so he could play the game as though it were on Spanish television.

I think of my Dad almost constantly, though I don't express that probably as often as I might should. I don't know the "rules" when it comes to those kinds of things.

If Dad were alive today, he would definitely have a YouTube channel, showing off the latest add-ons, mods, and real-world effects for the games he loved to play. He would probably be putting out "let's play" videos for horror games, too. Man, he loved horror games. By far and away, his favorite was "Clive Barker's Undying." It's pretty tame by today's standards, but back in the day, it was creepy with a good story and jump scares we hadn't seen in games before - or at least not done as well.

Ten years. I know it's hard for some folks, especially when you're young, to fathom how quickly ten years goes by. And, I also know I am suddenly sounding like a very old man here. But, really. You wake up one day and one of your best friends is telling you about something he and you are going to do when he gets back from Iraq. The next minute, you are told he died overnight. The world stops. The world slowly starts again. You close your eyes for a moment and when you open them, it's ten years later.

There are so many times my very first thought about a new game is that I wish I could tell my father.

On a much brighter note, my son loves gaming as well. He and I share stories, play online together, and continue the traditions started between my father and me. My daughter has started gaming a little, too. She prefers the "shared keyboard" type games where we can hang out together, side-by-side, racing, building, destroying enemies.

Ten years really does go by quickly. I miss one of the greatest gaming buddies I ever had.

Nov 29, 2014

Memory Lane: Dad's Computer Games

While my wife and daughter went off shopping, I decided to take some time and clean up the ol' home office. Now, mind you, I did say "clean up" and not "clean out" nor "tear down and start over." Believe me, that is an important bit of information. However, I will say that while "redding up" (well I am used to calling it, having been in Pittsburgh and all), I did a LOT of cleaning out. I threw out things that have been hanging around for decades. And, that is where this tale comes into play (slight pun intended).

I found a lot of CDR and DVD discs that had never been labeled, so after I was done cleaning, I fired up the computer and starting sifting through them. There were a LOT of them, and I tossed many of them away - mainly because they wouldn't even read in the drive.

I came across one that was made in 2005 or so and it had several folders: "Add-ons," "Patches," NoCD," etc. These discs used to be quite prevalent in and around the Henderson households (that is my family's household and my parent's) back in the day when we had dial-up. At work, I had much faster access and would grab all kinds of game enhancements and share those with Dad.

My main target were NoCD patches. Back before Steam, UPlay, and the like, you *HAD* to install software by disc (my preferred method still, frankly). And, often, as a means of copy protection, you had to have the disc in the drive in order to play the games. Well, someones out in the world figured out ways to let you play the games WITHOUT the discs. That was awesome. Hunting for and swapping out discs was a pain in the butt. I know, that sounds like whining, but we played a LOT of games.

In addition to the "Patches" disc, I decided to consolidate the several binders in which Dad had kept his discs. He was far more organized than I in that regard. So, after I consolidated, I started leafing through the binder's pages. Memories, wonderment, and puzzlement all came flooding in as I took a walk down computer gaming memory lane. And, this is what I am going to share with you now. Grab a Coke, a snack, and maybe a tissue or two. We may need them.

Before I get rolling, let me share a little about me and my Dad. I don't remember much of what my very young years were like in terms of him playing with me and my brother. I know he liked to attend certain activities with us (or, more to the point, TAKE us there: wrestling matches, indoor soccer games, Sea World and Geauga Lake...), but I don't really remember connecting with my dad on a "playing" level, if that makes sense. That all changed when I got my first computer. Well, really, I suppose that changed a little when we had our first "console" system: Atari 2600 followed quickly by Intellivision. I do remember playing some, but what really changed things was my first computer: a Commodore 64. He worked with a guy who helped us get all kinds of games for the thing. Dad and I would play some games together or watch each other play.

Fast forward to roughly 1998. I'm not sure if Dad had a home computer before 1998 or not. But, what I do know is that when my wife and I moved into our new home, my parents moved into the house we used to live in. Dad and I each had a computer and we spent many, many evenings playing together - well, watching each other play, really. We didn't have a way to do multiplayer games then. usually, the scenario went like this: Shan and my Mom would watch TV shows and Dad and I would hang out in his home office and play games. I loved every minute of it. I don't know if he knew that or not, though I suppose it would be hard to miss, but I couldn't wait to sit and talk about the latest games, the new mods for certain games (more on that in a bit), and how we needed to upgrade our computers for the next games coming out.

As I said, he kept his game discs in binders with special CD-ROM pages. So, tonight, I walked through those pages again after a long, long time (Dad passed in 2007). To be honest, I don't remember much about many of the games themselves. But, what I do remember are the things Dad and I would talk about RELATED to the games.


The binder (everything was moved from 3 binders to 1 very thick one) starts with Doom 3. This was one of Dad's favorites. Back in the Windows 95/98 days, Dad fell in love with 1st person games. Now, his all-time favorite was Clive Barker's Undying, but that game wouldn't run on Windows XP and he spit nails because of that. Anyway, he loved Doom 3. I remember watching him play through the opening sequence and I explained the history of Doom and id software and such. After he played a while, I installed the original Doom, Duke3d, and Wolf3d. He was not impressed. Haha! He was spoiled by the much better graphics and handling of Doom 3. In fact, that quickly became one of the running "benchmark jokes." When a new game would come out, he'd ask something like, "Is it better than that Wolfenstein game you showed me?" I would invariably say something like, "Yes, Dad. Wolf3d came out way before this new one."


I will not list every game in the binder, but I am going to show you what a varied taste in games my father had. The next page has the 10th Anniversary MYST, Riven, and Myst III on it. He loved puzzle games. He loved to hunt and click and figure out how certain pieces fit together to make something else happen. Later in this post, you'll come to see the true obsession he had with the genre.

He also loved war games. I remember the two of us playing through Call of Duty, Medal of Honor, Brothers in Arms, and Iron Storm. He usually had the controls and I would call attention to snipers he didn't see or enemy tactical movements he was missing because he was focused on the action in front of him. We would feed off each other, too. When we weren't in the same room, we would each play the games and then help each other through the rough spots. In a way, it was like some kind of single-player buddy system. Of course, many times, we would encourage the other person to go headlong into a firefight to see what happened, not necessarily willing to do the same in our own game.  He had other war-related games like Silent Hunter III and Enigma: Rising Tide or Shellshock 'Nam 67.


Remember what I said a bit ago about adventure games? I am pretty sure my dad had every Dreamcatcher/Adventure Company game ever developed. He absolutely loved playing those. Some of the titles in here are Syberia, Syberia II, Dracula, Lights Out, The Black Mirror, Dark Fall, and the list goes on and on. Seriously, he became obsessed with those games from that publisher. I think he bought a title every week for a while there, or it sure seemed like it. I suppose I should give one a try. I have never played any of them that I can recall.


One of my all-time favorites was XIII. Oh, man, he and I geeked out (though we didn't call it that in those days) over the cool cel shading technique used in that game. It was like playing a comic book shooter. I think we played through it a few times each, just not able to get enough of it after it was over.

He also loved utilities. Yes, you read that correctly. In fact, there is a 3.5-inch floppy with WinZip on it in the binder. But, he also had things like ULead video makers, Seagate hard drive utilities, Dragon Naturally Speaking (lol, the 1999 version is in here), PrintShop, and more. That's all well and good, but he would use certain utilities in ways that no one else would, and that was not always a good thing. I remember he tried to ZIP up his Windows folder once. He used some kind of "cleaner" utility to delete a "bunch of useless DLL files taking up space" that he then later called me to ask why his computer wasn't working correctly. He especially loved image programs. His favorite was "ACDSee" though he used a plethora of others as well.


And then, there were the sports games. He made the folks at EA Sports a LOT of money, let me tell you. He bought just about every EA Sports game they made: Tiger Woods, NHL, MLB, Madden, FIFA, NCAA Football (the one time they had it on PC), you name it. I think he even bought Cricket or Rugby or something (those have since disappeared from his binder, before i got hold of it). His desire for the games was not really to play the games themselves, but rather to MOD the games. He first started back with NHL '98. I remember this like it was yesterday. I came home from work, and he had been online all day (dial-up back then) downloading some kind of "Add-on" for his game. He learned where to put the files that would replace the original ones. In this case, he found arena files that would update all the in-game boards with the actual ads from the real-life counterparts. I have to admit, I thought it was awesome. We would play against each other in near-replica arenas. He didn't stop at boards, either. He downloaded crowds, uniforms, ice graphics, you name it. and, he didn't stop at hockey. FIFA was his all-time favorite to install these add-ons. He would search for add-ons and then hand me a list to download during my lunch at work. We had team kits, stadium updates, and at one point, he found the Spanish-language commentator files and had me download those so that he could play his game with Spanish commentators! haha! Oh, man that was a riot. Every sports game he bought, he would immediately install and start the hunt for modifications to enhance the game.

Looking through this binder, I find flight simulators, real-time simulations, pool, bowling, and casino games (even an autographed card from Annie Duke, no less!), the whole "CSI" series of games, "Splinter Cell," "Mafia," "GTA Vice City," and so much more.


I truly wish Dad would have been able to see games now. He would be flipping out over the latest EA Sports games, all the "Seek and Find" games available, 1st person shooters, and anything else he could download and find add-ons to change up. There are many things I miss about my father. One of the strongest, though, is being able to call him up or run up the hill and tell him about some new game we could play or some cool new add-on he'd enjoy. Every now and then, I get that urge and it stops me dead in my tracks that I have to remind myself he's moved on.

Jul 12, 2013

Green Machines on the Interstate


When my brother and I were kids, we had the "Best thing since Big Wheels" - The Green Machine. We each had one, and we rode those things everywhere we could.  One time, I believe this was during the summer though I cannot tell you what year - most likely '78 or '79, we went with my Dad on a trip.

I think we were driving to Cleveland to see my Grandparents. At least, that seems the most logical, though I am not sure why my Mom wasn't with us. At any rate, as we headed down the highway, we had our stuff including our Green Machines.

Somewhere around Exit 10 (In those days, it was Exit 10. Nowadays, I don't know the exit number, and it may still be 10 for all I know) on the Turnpike, our car broke down. I think Dad may have gotten a flat or something. Well, there weren't ubiquitous cell phones back then. Dad pulled the car off the highway, and we waited for a passing car to help or a tow truck or a police officer.

As we waited, time was going by and I'm sure we kids were driving my father crazy, so we convinced him to let us ride our Green Machines. We rode them on the nearest paved road - the Exit 10 offramp. Yes, that's right.  My Dad let his two kids ride their toys on the offramp of a state turnpike!  Those are the kinds of cool things you could do back in those days. Or, so we thought.

Turns out, if you want the cops to show up with lights and sirens, just have your kids ride their Green Machines on the Interstate. The officer did not see my Dad and his car off the side of the road. He saw me and my brother turning donuts on the Exit 10 offramp after we had crossed over the overpass.

I think Dad got off with just a warning, and we kids got a rather lengthy lecture about "playing on the Interstate." What I learned from it was that people will ignore you completely unless you do something so far out of the ordinary that they have to come see just what you're doing.

Mar 28, 2012

15 Years Later...

I have a stack of CDs/DVDs that came with various computer magazines.  Some of them are from last year or close enough. Others, however, date back further. In the case of one such disc, MUCH further.

I have a 1997 PC Gamer CD entitled, "The Sports Spectacular" from 1997.  It features such blockbusters as LinksLS Golf, SimGolf, FIFA97, NCAA Final Four, and many other fun programs.

The CD would not launch anything from inside Win7, so I jumped over to DOSBox for some help.  I fired up LinksLS first because I can remember my Dad loading this on his computer back then, and we watched in awe of the incredible graphics.


The game itself actually played well on my almost-modern PC, if not a bit fast given the cycle speeds of today's computers.  I'm sure I could tweak that a bit inside DOSBox if I wanted to.  The game draws the screens in the same fashion as days of yore: The ground, the trees, the buildings, etc, all appear in their "turn" of the screen layout.  It is very bizarre to see it unfold by today's standards.  The graphics, though weirdly a mix of 2d and 3d, aren't the worst even 15 years later.  The game is old-school playable.  Hold the mouse as the power meter fills. Release. Click when the meter gets to the bottom.  As I said, it is more than a tad faster today than back then. Timing was not my greatest suit - then or now.  I did not finish the round. Or even the hole. I wanted some bacon.  Oh, sorry, I've been listening to too much Jim Gaffigan lately.

Next, I fired up FIFA 97.  This game ran horribly - jumps, jitters, weird camera angles.  I had to play with different camera settings just to get the game to show me where the heck the ball was.  And, did I remember the controls after 15 years?  Of course not.


The screen shot, shrunken down the way it is, makes the game look way better than it looked while playing it.  Characters were blocky and the ball was jagged.  Of course, we had not heard of "anti-aliasing" in the days of DOS. At least, I hadn't.  Once play started, it ran okay and the jitters settled a bit.  Since I had no idea which way I was going, I managed to walk the ball into my own goal.  Thus, Germany beat England as shown above.  I did manage to figure out controls (arrow keys move, A,S,D, to pass, punt and kick, er well, you get the idea).

The DOS-based menu show what other demos, maps, add-ons, etc you could load:



I quit loading games after these two.  The trip down memory lane was not quite the rosy adventure I had hoped for. Though, in a way, it was.  Playing the games reminded me of playing games with my Dad.  My Dad always supported my "computer habit" growing up.  And, as often as he could, he kept up with me - playing the latest games, downloading software I had never heard of, calling me to fix his computer because he downloaded said software and it trashed his system.  I can remember sitting next to him as we juked and jived down the field, battling each other for the ball.  Hockey was our favorite, though.  I was a keyboard guy and he loved playing with his multi-key keypad controller. 

When I found this CD, I knew it would take me for a journey into my past.  It just took me to a place I hadn't expected.

Mar 28, 2011

Stuff my Dad said

These little gems may not earn me a television show or a massive following on Twitter, but I was thinking about some of the things my Dad would tell us kids, and thought I'd share some (the ones I could remember):
  • Don't spit in the ocean
  • Don't pee in the wind (or the pool)
  • Don't take any wooden nickels
  • You can't (edited) do Number One and Number Two at the same time
  • Don't sneeze with your eyes open
  • If you fall out of the tree and break your legs, don't come running to me
  • Princess Bride is the dumbest movie
  • You kids ride your Green Machines up and down the exit ramp while I try to flag down some help (that "help" turned out to be the State Police)
  • Stop your crying or I'll give you something to cry about
  • This is gonna hurt me more than... no, it won't.
  • What the (blankety-blank) are you two (blanety-blank) kids doing up/down/over there!?
  • If you two are going to horse around, then go outside and do it
  • This will only take fifteen minutes to fix/do (then, three hours later.... we're still at it)
  • This will be a shortcut (EIGHT hours later, still not even close to our destination)
  • You can't get there from here
  • You bet (used in any situation - right, wrong, indifferent)
  • They (ticked) me off, so I quit.
  • Keep your mouth shut, Henderson (talking to/about himself)
  • Vos Los Tibby Hubbin? (That's the best "translation" I can do.  I have no idea what it meant, but when he said it, it meant he wanted you to repeat yourself)
  • I deleted a bunch of files that looked suspicious (turned out they were vital DLL files in his Windows directory)
  • Hey, look what I found (talking about add-ons for games like FIFA, MADDEN, NHL Hockey, etc that made the games more "realistic")
  • Coke Is It! (Thanks, Nik!)
  • Detroit!? Who Cares! (I think this had something to do with a football slogan or something, but it became his saying for anything that would normally warrant a "who cares" response)
 Those are the ones I can think of right now. I'm sure my family will have others they'd like to add...

Sep 7, 2010

Letting off STEAM (and that's a good thing)

In a previous post, I talked about how much I dislike the STEAM game site as a way of software distribution.  I also talked about the hoops needed to jump through in order to be able to play a game my father had purchased some time ago.

Now, the first thing I want to do is admit that I made a mistake in dating the game.  I thought this was the original Red Orchestra. Instead, it is the OSTFRONT 41-45 (2006) version.

Steam asked me to write down my ticket number ON the CD key page of the manual.  I also has to come up with either a username or email address that he used to log in to his Steam account.  Now, how would I know that?  Well, I gave them the email address my parents used before he passed away.

Today, I received an email with his username and a new password.  I was told to use that information when logging in and I would not have to re-enter the CD key to play.

Though I still loathe such control over software installation and distribution, I do want to commend STEAM for the job their tech team did in getting me up and running on a game that my father owned.

Jan 1, 2010

365 Photo Challenge (sorta)

I recently learned of a challenge in which people are to post a picture every single day.  Sometimes, specific subjects are posted as the 'challenge,' but I know I would never be able to meet that by the end of things.  So, instead, I am simply shooting for one picture a day in addition to my regular (er, not-so-regular) postings.

Thus, I present my first official image of 2010:


It is a sweatshirt picture frame of OSU - my Dad's favorite University

To keep things easy to find for this project, I will label each of these as "Photo365" and eventually make a link that brings them all up for reading.

May 20, 2009

OMG, Happy Birthday, Dad: It's the AI Finale

Not only is today the AI Finale, but it's Dad's birthday. All I can say is that I imagine Dad is having one heck of a party. And, if he's out there watching Idol in some way, he is gettin his groove on, much to the chagrin of those in charge, I'm sure. :-)

Uhhh, is Adam wearing parachute pants!? What is up with the all-white look tonight? I'm sure there are ACLU/NAACP people going to throw a fit over that one.

Oh, the ubiquitous "Rock Star" gets everyone involved. Seriously, is there a contestant-based TV show that ISN'T using that song at some point during the 'season?' I mean, okay, yes, great song, but man, how about something a little newer or something with about a million fewer radio hours of play time, folks?

I am so glad we have DVR. We are able to move past all the junk no one wants to see. Is there a way for directv to monitor what gets watched and what gets passed over in fast-forward? Man, if not, they should really think about it. Monitor what people are skipping over and send that to Fox. Then, next year's finale can be the 30-minute show it should be.

ROTFL, okay, the whole 'Norman' thing is funny. That is classic.... Oh, yeah, this will be on the Soup...

Man, I am a huge Lil Rounds fan. She is awesome.

Okay, the Jason Mraz folks are more than a bit off... Good thing the song outshines the singers.

Holy crap - Keith Urban!? Wow, it does not get much better than getting to sing with Keith live. That is awesome!

I still like Megan's quirky voice. Dawg, Fergie in the house! Wow, this is a great night for star singers. Shan said, "Hey, this is on SingStar!" (Big Girls Don't Cry). Ah, and now we bring in the whole Black Eyed Peas crew. Yeah, they should have let Fergie in there by herself.

Uh, Katrina has had quite a bit of work done since she was on. Oh, man, Ryan's "I think I know (what's new)" comment was fantastic!! This is hilarious - Kara was funny! That's cool that they'll donate money to charity for that stunt.

Allison and Cyndi. As Shan said, Cyndi looks great. She was the very first concert I ever saw in person, as I've said on here before I'm sure. Man, Cyndi looks the same as she did 20+ years ago. She sings weird as heck as always, but great stuff.

Danny sings Lionel Richie... HOLY SMOKES!! Oh, man, talk about a night of music legends! He still looks good, and smooth as always. Man, these Idols have got to be in awe.

Adam is sporting the 'crow' outfit. I knew he would be singing with KISS. Now, KISS looks as old as they are. Old men wearing their crazy make-up. Granted, it is still KISS, so they're rockin no matter what!

One of the original guitar heroes - Santana! Okay, forget Matt, just let Santana play. Well, these guys are butchering the song. UGH... Except Kris and Danny.

Steve Martin shows off his banjo chops (He has a new album out, did you know that?).

Rod (holy friggin crap!) Stewart! That is (as Shan said) "IMPRESSIVE!" I am so glad we actually stopped to watch the singing because the superstars are well worth watching! Great show!

Geez, Tatiana... That little skit was cute.

OH MY GOSH - Queen!? I cannot believe that got Queen on here, too! This is a 'kid of the 70s-80s' best show ever! Absolutely incredible.

And, Your American Idol is.......

KRIS ALLEN!!!!! Congratulations, Kris!

Apr 30, 2007

My Dad: Loved, Goofy, Deeply Missed (1945-2007)

My Dad: Loved, Goofy, Missed 1945-2007

It's still there... The shock of it all... No matter what I "know," it doesn't seem real. Wake up each day, thinking it was a bad dream or some kind of mistake, but knowing it's not. I know it has only been two days - two long days that seem to fly by anyway... We look at the clock and wonder how lunchtime got here so fast, then supper time, then it's midnight before we know it. Yet, it has been two long days, just waiting for Dad to come home from Iraq. On Sunday, we got a call from Steven at KBR, and he told us he was on his way to Dover Air Force Base to meet Dad - that Dad had already left Germany and was on his way to Dover. Everything around us seems to be going 900 miles an hour, while we are struck in slow motion, wondering what we are "supposed" to be doing, feeling like we should be "doing something," yet what do we do? So, we sit and talk, visit with friends and family, laughing and crying. We know things will get better, that life will be "okay," but when the world comes to a screeching halt, it takes a lot to get it moving again....

My Dad, Gerald A. Henderson, was weird. Seriously, a total goof-ball that not only marched to the beat of his own drummer, he had a whole band that was off-center and (lucky for all those who knew him) out-of-step with the rest of the world. He loved to laugh, to make people laugh. He never met a stranger, as they say, and there was none stranger than my Dad! :-) And, I say that with all the love in my heart, because it's true! He had the kind of humor that you weren't quite sure if he was kidding with you or not until he gave you 'the look,' which was usually followed by his trademark hand passing over his head, making a 'whoosh' sound, indicating that what he just told you went way, way over your head. When my brother and I were kids, we repeatedly told my Dad, "Don't act weird in public!" Which, of course, he not only ignored, but made sure that in public, he would often be at his 'weirdest.' My Dad could talk to anyone, WOULD talk to anyone, about anything for hours if we let him. He was not good with names (I inherited that from him), but he knew your face forever once he saw it.

My Dad was a great man - husband, father, grandfather, friend. Not wealthy or famous or powerful. He was great because he learned from the mistakes he made in life. So many times, he could have led himself (and us) down a much different road, but instead, he found his way to keeping things together. That was not always easy for him (or us), and there was a lot of teeth-grinding involved. But, he did it. He sacrificed a lot of things, even when he didn't agree with the sacrifice. In his own way, he showed us love the way he knew how. Once he went to Iraq, he changed... My Dad became the man he had always wanted to be - finding ways to show us his love and affection for us that he never had known before.

He passed away on Saturday, April 28, 2007, in his sleep. It could have been worse, much worse. And even in his passing, he managed to give us story that will make us laugh for the rest of our lives. I'll share the full story with you some time, but right now, I don't feel like laughing......

My Dad loved to smile, cuss, play on the computer (once I finally convinced him to get one!), golf, find a million ways to quit working (LOL, many of the 'get rich quick' info is still in the closet in Mom and Dad's computer room), love us the best way he knew how.... It took thousands of miles and lots of time away for my Dad to see what life was about - family - and he was ready to bring that new found knowledge back home. He was less than two weeks away from his first R&R, where he was going to meet my Mom in England and fly together to Scotland. He always wanted to see St. Andrews golf course and find out more about the Henderson crest... My Mom had the siding on the house re-done and was going to build a new deck to surprise him. We never sent pictures of the house to him because we didn't want to ruin the surprise. A couple years ago, my Dad had to sell a custom ring, and it crushed him. It had diamonds from his mother's rings.... Mom had to buy it back from the pawn shop and was going to surprise my Dad with it when they re-newed their vows in Scotland. He never knew she had it back. It was a surprise....

I am one of the lucky ones. Not long before my Dad passed, I had told him that I loved him. When he first went to Kuwait and Iraq, I told him how proud I was of him, and how much I loved him. I wish I had somehow said something more, done something more, something... But, I also know that he left this world, knowing how much we all loved him, no matter how goofy he could be (and in truth, BECAUSE of how goofy he could be). I miss him. When he got back, we were going to start playing some of our favorite games in multiplayer mode together.... A 38-year old son playing games with his 62-year old Dad..... maybe in another lifetime.....

While in Iraq, Dad often said he could not get any sleep because of the helipad behind his 'hooch.' Sleep well, Daddy.... You can finally sleep in peace.... I Love You, Daddy. We miss you, we love you, always.

Apr 23, 2007

Dreamweavin.... and stuff....

This week, I am learning Dreamweaver at work. It's a web page design and authoring program. It is totally (so far as we can tell, anyway) incompatible with the Sharepoint we use for 3/4's of the sites we manage... One site will be fine with it... What do I plan on doing with it? I have no idea yet... It won't be wasted or lost on me, I just don't have an immediate application for it... Oh well, any learnin' is good learnin', right?



As I mentioned before, I have been working with one of Shan's friend's computer (the one with Vista). Tonight, we had trouble getting an updated driver. During the process of troubleshooting and copying old mail into the new mail program for Vista, Janette served me a concoction of Sierra Mist and Orange-Tangerine tea. My grandmother on my Dad's side used to drink "high balls" which (from what I remember) were basically 7-up and whiskey in a glass with ice. For whatever reason, when I was handed a glass of the Mist/tea drink, it instantly smelled like Grandma's High Balls... I was assured there was no alcohol in the drink, but Bill (Janette's husband) offered to put some in... Well, he only did that figuring it would help get me through the evening of listening to Shan and Janette talking while I worked on the computer.. :-) I declined the offer... :-)


We have been playing baseball with the kids the past few days. Do you have any idea how much energy two kids can have!? Good heavens! Emily is doing really well, learning how to hold the bat, swing at the ball, and run the bases (which consist of the van (1st), a tree (2nd), a patch of dirt on the ground (3rd), and the general vicinity of the bat (home). Now, since we live on a farm, we had to institute a rule that you won't find in most rulebooks.... If the ball goes through the fence to where the cows are, you're out. At first, we said it would be a ground-rule double, but those came too frequently for our liking, so we added the challenge of NOT hitting one out of the park... :-) Oh, and if the ball rolls under the van or the truck, it's an automatic one-base rule... After all, it wouldn't be fair for the runner to score a home run when the other team was trying to get the ball from under said obstacles..... :-) Really, things haven't changed much since I was a kid playing ball in the apartment complex where we lived... Sure, the hazards are different, but we still made up goofy rules to deal them back then, too....


Okay, have you heard about the 'texting wizard?' This girl texted the phrase: "Supercalifragilisticexpialidoucious! Even though the sound of it is something quite atrocious. If you say it loud enough you'll always sound precocious." So what you say?? How about doing it in FIFTEEN SECONDS! Granted, she has a keyboard-type phone, but I sure in the heck couldn't type it on a regular keyboard, let alone a thumb-driven one! Plus, she pocketed $25000 for her 'trouble...'


Now, here's a story I had not of until today... Evidently, "way back" in 1982 (when Michael Jackson was between "Off the Wall" and "Thriller"), a couple of guys decided to go out shooting... They picked on a cactus or two, and one seemingly took offense to having its parts blown off, so it reached out and killed one of the guys by falling on him and impaling him with FOUR-FOOT long needles! Ouch... You know me, I "scopes-ed" it, and, jinkies, Scooby, it's REAL!


Dad sent some pictures of yet ANOTHER rocket attack near where he lives and works in Iraq... This time, the rocket hit a warehouse and no one was injured....




And, I have to thank my Aunt for a very humorous email... If you do a Google Map and ask for directions from New York, NY to Plymouth, UK, you'll see a very funny step in there (around step 24). Plus, if you switch to the 'printer-friendly' version, it even tells you how long step 24 should take! :-) Try it!

Apr 22, 2007

Gotta have Faith..er uh..Stef! The Apple iRack...

"You're Hired!" Stefani heard those words tonight on "The Apprentice!" I was kinda surprised because I thought James was Trump's 'pet.' Shan, on the other hand, knew the whole time that Stefani was "the one." Guess Stef will be going to the Caribbean (funny how both women chose the island, while the guys chose Atlanta).

I checked out the 'stuff' up for auction. Have you seen it? You can tell it's for charity, because most of this 'stuff' wouldn't fetch a dime otherwise.... Anyway, see for yourself: Apprentice Auction.

Surya's comment about Sanjaya was.....expected. In fact, when he first came out, Shan and I said something about him and Sanjie....


I know the "title" of my blog is "Just Popped in My Head," and why I didn't make the address match the title is something I have wondered myself many times. As it turns out, a few folks have been searching for this site by typing the 'just' and not finding it... So, I did what anyone who was trying to suck more people into the space between his ears would do - I created a new site that directs people to this one! :-) Yeah, yeah, self-serving, I know, I know... What can I say?


Have you ever dropped what you were doing to go help someone? Have you done this without stopping to think about what you were wearing or where you were going? Today was Shan's Sister's baby shower at the church. After church, several folks helped set up for party and then I went home.

Around the time for the party to be over, Shan called the house and Tyler answered. This is what *I* was told: "Mimi is sick and you need to go to the church to drive her home. And they want you to bring your truck to help carry stuff." Now, it didn't make sense that I would going to pick up my mother, since her car was there and Shan and/or Shan's mom could drive the car back... I understood the need for a truck for hauling.... I happened to have also been in the middle of a very high, hot pursuit in Need for Speed.... I had 17 cops chasing my tail, for crying out loud! :-) Oh, did I mention that after church and set-up, I had come home to change my clothes? And, did I further mention that I wore these 'very casual' clothes back up to the church?

I looked like I had just woke up from a nap. I figured since I was helping to haul stuff, everyone but family would be gone..... WRONG! But, I decided the heck with it - it was to late to do much about it anyway.... I had on my new 'long' shorts and a T-shirt that has a picture of the Grim Reaper and it says "Smoking is Cool." The point of the shirt is that death thinks smoking is cool... Of course death would, right? So, I am in church with a shirt that reads "smoking is cool...." Look, no matter what the 'message' of the shirt is, really, one should stop and think before wearing a shirt to church that seems to be encouraging smoking.... Not my brightest moment.... Not the dumbest either, mind you, but certainly not the brightest...

As it turns out, Mimi had already driven HERSELF home because she was sick. Something got lost in translation, it seems....


I did want to mention that I received a birthday card from my Aunt (well, a card from each Aunt, really). One of the cards told me NOT to behave myself on my birthday, and the other centered on tools...well, getting hammered and nailed, to be specific.... You'd think they were trying to tell me something....


I do have one beef I'd like to share (hmm, probably not the best way to say that after the last section, huh?) - Why is it that many (dare I say most) handicapped drivers drive like the CAR is handicapped!?!? Look, I understand that someone with a handicap plate suffers from whatever ailment that rightfully justifies their handicapped status. No problem. But, THEY are handicapped, not the car they are driving!? Is there some law I am not aware of that says "Handicapped drivers must disobey all speed limit signs, instead driving no mare than 10% of the posted speed????" I ended up behind such a person on the way back up to the church... I kept expecting the person (who was so short, I could not tell if it was a man or a woman driving) in front of me to pull over and let me pass by.... Nope... Just keep on moving (and I use the term VERY loosely here), blocking my path....

Maybe we need special stickers for the plates, so the rest of the world knows instantly if the driver AND car are handicapped, or just the driver.....


Dad sent us pictures of an attack that happened very close to where he works in Iraq. As it turns out, the insurgents are getting better and better weapons, but aren't really focused on just how to USE those weapons....



Now look, I know this is serious stuff, but COME ON, how can anyone just let this next photo go without SOME kind of comment??? :-) "Are we sure the explosion came from the OUTSIDE of the building???" Or, maybe, "Do NOT go in there! Phew!!" Maybe even, "You can drink the water in Iraq, but watch out for those burritos!!"



And, Bo and Luke have joined the fight:



Have you seen the new Apple iRack!? What will they think of next?