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Showing posts with label memories. Show all posts
Showing posts with label memories. Show all posts
Aug 16, 2015
Playing in Tar
When I was very young, perhaps not even in kindergarten or maybe a little older, my brother and I went to visit my cousin for a sleepover. At least, I think it was a sleepover - we may have just been spending the day. In any case, we were very young and the city was resurfacing roads in and around their house. So, the three of us decided to go down to the curb and play in the puddle. The puddle was, of course, tar from the roadwork.
I remember very little of the incident, other than being covered in the black stuff basically from head to toe. I am sure we had it in our hair, all over our bodies, and who knows where else. What I also remember is taking a bath (or what seemed like a bath) in Turpentine to get it off.
I'm not sure what prompted that memory just now, but there it is. Of course, in this day and age, child services would have been called long before we even had an ounce of tar on us just for being that close to the road. I am sure, however, the entire adventure had a lesson in it that I've carried the rest of my life. I suppose, if anything, I learned not to play in a pool of tar.
Nov 29, 2014
Memory Lane: Dad's Computer Games
While my wife and daughter went off shopping, I decided to take some time and clean up the ol' home office. Now, mind you, I did say "clean up" and not "clean out" nor "tear down and start over." Believe me, that is an important bit of information. However, I will say that while "redding up" (well I am used to calling it, having been in Pittsburgh and all), I did a LOT of cleaning out. I threw out things that have been hanging around for decades. And, that is where this tale comes into play (slight pun intended).
I found a lot of CDR and DVD discs that had never been labeled, so after I was done cleaning, I fired up the computer and starting sifting through them. There were a LOT of them, and I tossed many of them away - mainly because they wouldn't even read in the drive.
I came across one that was made in 2005 or so and it had several folders: "Add-ons," "Patches," NoCD," etc. These discs used to be quite prevalent in and around the Henderson households (that is my family's household and my parent's) back in the day when we had dial-up. At work, I had much faster access and would grab all kinds of game enhancements and share those with Dad.
My main target were NoCD patches. Back before Steam, UPlay, and the like, you *HAD* to install software by disc (my preferred method still, frankly). And, often, as a means of copy protection, you had to have the disc in the drive in order to play the games. Well, someones out in the world figured out ways to let you play the games WITHOUT the discs. That was awesome. Hunting for and swapping out discs was a pain in the butt. I know, that sounds like whining, but we played a LOT of games.
In addition to the "Patches" disc, I decided to consolidate the several binders in which Dad had kept his discs. He was far more organized than I in that regard. So, after I consolidated, I started leafing through the binder's pages. Memories, wonderment, and puzzlement all came flooding in as I took a walk down computer gaming memory lane. And, this is what I am going to share with you now. Grab a Coke, a snack, and maybe a tissue or two. We may need them.
Before I get rolling, let me share a little about me and my Dad. I don't remember much of what my very young years were like in terms of him playing with me and my brother. I know he liked to attend certain activities with us (or, more to the point, TAKE us there: wrestling matches, indoor soccer games, Sea World and Geauga Lake...), but I don't really remember connecting with my dad on a "playing" level, if that makes sense. That all changed when I got my first computer. Well, really, I suppose that changed a little when we had our first "console" system: Atari 2600 followed quickly by Intellivision. I do remember playing some, but what really changed things was my first computer: a Commodore 64. He worked with a guy who helped us get all kinds of games for the thing. Dad and I would play some games together or watch each other play.
Fast forward to roughly 1998. I'm not sure if Dad had a home computer before 1998 or not. But, what I do know is that when my wife and I moved into our new home, my parents moved into the house we used to live in. Dad and I each had a computer and we spent many, many evenings playing together - well, watching each other play, really. We didn't have a way to do multiplayer games then. usually, the scenario went like this: Shan and my Mom would watch TV shows and Dad and I would hang out in his home office and play games. I loved every minute of it. I don't know if he knew that or not, though I suppose it would be hard to miss, but I couldn't wait to sit and talk about the latest games, the new mods for certain games (more on that in a bit), and how we needed to upgrade our computers for the next games coming out.
As I said, he kept his game discs in binders with special CD-ROM pages. So, tonight, I walked through those pages again after a long, long time (Dad passed in 2007). To be honest, I don't remember much about many of the games themselves. But, what I do remember are the things Dad and I would talk about RELATED to the games.
The binder (everything was moved from 3 binders to 1 very thick one) starts with Doom 3. This was one of Dad's favorites. Back in the Windows 95/98 days, Dad fell in love with 1st person games. Now, his all-time favorite was Clive Barker's Undying, but that game wouldn't run on Windows XP and he spit nails because of that. Anyway, he loved Doom 3. I remember watching him play through the opening sequence and I explained the history of Doom and id software and such. After he played a while, I installed the original Doom, Duke3d, and Wolf3d. He was not impressed. Haha! He was spoiled by the much better graphics and handling of Doom 3. In fact, that quickly became one of the running "benchmark jokes." When a new game would come out, he'd ask something like, "Is it better than that Wolfenstein game you showed me?" I would invariably say something like, "Yes, Dad. Wolf3d came out way before this new one."
I will not list every game in the binder, but I am going to show you what a varied taste in games my father had. The next page has the 10th Anniversary MYST, Riven, and Myst III on it. He loved puzzle games. He loved to hunt and click and figure out how certain pieces fit together to make something else happen. Later in this post, you'll come to see the true obsession he had with the genre.
He also loved war games. I remember the two of us playing through Call of Duty, Medal of Honor, Brothers in Arms, and Iron Storm. He usually had the controls and I would call attention to snipers he didn't see or enemy tactical movements he was missing because he was focused on the action in front of him. We would feed off each other, too. When we weren't in the same room, we would each play the games and then help each other through the rough spots. In a way, it was like some kind of single-player buddy system. Of course, many times, we would encourage the other person to go headlong into a firefight to see what happened, not necessarily willing to do the same in our own game. He had other war-related games like Silent Hunter III and Enigma: Rising Tide or Shellshock 'Nam 67.
Remember what I said a bit ago about adventure games? I am pretty sure my dad had every Dreamcatcher/Adventure Company game ever developed. He absolutely loved playing those. Some of the titles in here are Syberia, Syberia II, Dracula, Lights Out, The Black Mirror, Dark Fall, and the list goes on and on. Seriously, he became obsessed with those games from that publisher. I think he bought a title every week for a while there, or it sure seemed like it. I suppose I should give one a try. I have never played any of them that I can recall.
One of my all-time favorites was XIII. Oh, man, he and I geeked out (though we didn't call it that in those days) over the cool cel shading technique used in that game. It was like playing a comic book shooter. I think we played through it a few times each, just not able to get enough of it after it was over.
He also loved utilities. Yes, you read that correctly. In fact, there is a 3.5-inch floppy with WinZip on it in the binder. But, he also had things like ULead video makers, Seagate hard drive utilities, Dragon Naturally Speaking (lol, the 1999 version is in here), PrintShop, and more. That's all well and good, but he would use certain utilities in ways that no one else would, and that was not always a good thing. I remember he tried to ZIP up his Windows folder once. He used some kind of "cleaner" utility to delete a "bunch of useless DLL files taking up space" that he then later called me to ask why his computer wasn't working correctly. He especially loved image programs. His favorite was "ACDSee" though he used a plethora of others as well.
And then, there were the sports games. He made the folks at EA Sports a LOT of money, let me tell you. He bought just about every EA Sports game they made: Tiger Woods, NHL, MLB, Madden, FIFA, NCAA Football (the one time they had it on PC), you name it. I think he even bought Cricket or Rugby or something (those have since disappeared from his binder, before i got hold of it). His desire for the games was not really to play the games themselves, but rather to MOD the games. He first started back with NHL '98. I remember this like it was yesterday. I came home from work, and he had been online all day (dial-up back then) downloading some kind of "Add-on" for his game. He learned where to put the files that would replace the original ones. In this case, he found arena files that would update all the in-game boards with the actual ads from the real-life counterparts. I have to admit, I thought it was awesome. We would play against each other in near-replica arenas. He didn't stop at boards, either. He downloaded crowds, uniforms, ice graphics, you name it. and, he didn't stop at hockey. FIFA was his all-time favorite to install these add-ons. He would search for add-ons and then hand me a list to download during my lunch at work. We had team kits, stadium updates, and at one point, he found the Spanish-language commentator files and had me download those so that he could play his game with Spanish commentators! haha! Oh, man that was a riot. Every sports game he bought, he would immediately install and start the hunt for modifications to enhance the game.
Looking through this binder, I find flight simulators, real-time simulations, pool, bowling, and casino games (even an autographed card from Annie Duke, no less!), the whole "CSI" series of games, "Splinter Cell," "Mafia," "GTA Vice City," and so much more.
I truly wish Dad would have been able to see games now. He would be flipping out over the latest EA Sports games, all the "Seek and Find" games available, 1st person shooters, and anything else he could download and find add-ons to change up. There are many things I miss about my father. One of the strongest, though, is being able to call him up or run up the hill and tell him about some new game we could play or some cool new add-on he'd enjoy. Every now and then, I get that urge and it stops me dead in my tracks that I have to remind myself he's moved on.
I found a lot of CDR and DVD discs that had never been labeled, so after I was done cleaning, I fired up the computer and starting sifting through them. There were a LOT of them, and I tossed many of them away - mainly because they wouldn't even read in the drive.
I came across one that was made in 2005 or so and it had several folders: "Add-ons," "Patches," NoCD," etc. These discs used to be quite prevalent in and around the Henderson households (that is my family's household and my parent's) back in the day when we had dial-up. At work, I had much faster access and would grab all kinds of game enhancements and share those with Dad.
My main target were NoCD patches. Back before Steam, UPlay, and the like, you *HAD* to install software by disc (my preferred method still, frankly). And, often, as a means of copy protection, you had to have the disc in the drive in order to play the games. Well, someones out in the world figured out ways to let you play the games WITHOUT the discs. That was awesome. Hunting for and swapping out discs was a pain in the butt. I know, that sounds like whining, but we played a LOT of games.
In addition to the "Patches" disc, I decided to consolidate the several binders in which Dad had kept his discs. He was far more organized than I in that regard. So, after I consolidated, I started leafing through the binder's pages. Memories, wonderment, and puzzlement all came flooding in as I took a walk down computer gaming memory lane. And, this is what I am going to share with you now. Grab a Coke, a snack, and maybe a tissue or two. We may need them.
Before I get rolling, let me share a little about me and my Dad. I don't remember much of what my very young years were like in terms of him playing with me and my brother. I know he liked to attend certain activities with us (or, more to the point, TAKE us there: wrestling matches, indoor soccer games, Sea World and Geauga Lake...), but I don't really remember connecting with my dad on a "playing" level, if that makes sense. That all changed when I got my first computer. Well, really, I suppose that changed a little when we had our first "console" system: Atari 2600 followed quickly by Intellivision. I do remember playing some, but what really changed things was my first computer: a Commodore 64. He worked with a guy who helped us get all kinds of games for the thing. Dad and I would play some games together or watch each other play.
Fast forward to roughly 1998. I'm not sure if Dad had a home computer before 1998 or not. But, what I do know is that when my wife and I moved into our new home, my parents moved into the house we used to live in. Dad and I each had a computer and we spent many, many evenings playing together - well, watching each other play, really. We didn't have a way to do multiplayer games then. usually, the scenario went like this: Shan and my Mom would watch TV shows and Dad and I would hang out in his home office and play games. I loved every minute of it. I don't know if he knew that or not, though I suppose it would be hard to miss, but I couldn't wait to sit and talk about the latest games, the new mods for certain games (more on that in a bit), and how we needed to upgrade our computers for the next games coming out.
As I said, he kept his game discs in binders with special CD-ROM pages. So, tonight, I walked through those pages again after a long, long time (Dad passed in 2007). To be honest, I don't remember much about many of the games themselves. But, what I do remember are the things Dad and I would talk about RELATED to the games.
The binder (everything was moved from 3 binders to 1 very thick one) starts with Doom 3. This was one of Dad's favorites. Back in the Windows 95/98 days, Dad fell in love with 1st person games. Now, his all-time favorite was Clive Barker's Undying, but that game wouldn't run on Windows XP and he spit nails because of that. Anyway, he loved Doom 3. I remember watching him play through the opening sequence and I explained the history of Doom and id software and such. After he played a while, I installed the original Doom, Duke3d, and Wolf3d. He was not impressed. Haha! He was spoiled by the much better graphics and handling of Doom 3. In fact, that quickly became one of the running "benchmark jokes." When a new game would come out, he'd ask something like, "Is it better than that Wolfenstein game you showed me?" I would invariably say something like, "Yes, Dad. Wolf3d came out way before this new one."
I will not list every game in the binder, but I am going to show you what a varied taste in games my father had. The next page has the 10th Anniversary MYST, Riven, and Myst III on it. He loved puzzle games. He loved to hunt and click and figure out how certain pieces fit together to make something else happen. Later in this post, you'll come to see the true obsession he had with the genre.
He also loved war games. I remember the two of us playing through Call of Duty, Medal of Honor, Brothers in Arms, and Iron Storm. He usually had the controls and I would call attention to snipers he didn't see or enemy tactical movements he was missing because he was focused on the action in front of him. We would feed off each other, too. When we weren't in the same room, we would each play the games and then help each other through the rough spots. In a way, it was like some kind of single-player buddy system. Of course, many times, we would encourage the other person to go headlong into a firefight to see what happened, not necessarily willing to do the same in our own game. He had other war-related games like Silent Hunter III and Enigma: Rising Tide or Shellshock 'Nam 67.
Remember what I said a bit ago about adventure games? I am pretty sure my dad had every Dreamcatcher/Adventure Company game ever developed. He absolutely loved playing those. Some of the titles in here are Syberia, Syberia II, Dracula, Lights Out, The Black Mirror, Dark Fall, and the list goes on and on. Seriously, he became obsessed with those games from that publisher. I think he bought a title every week for a while there, or it sure seemed like it. I suppose I should give one a try. I have never played any of them that I can recall.
One of my all-time favorites was XIII. Oh, man, he and I geeked out (though we didn't call it that in those days) over the cool cel shading technique used in that game. It was like playing a comic book shooter. I think we played through it a few times each, just not able to get enough of it after it was over.
He also loved utilities. Yes, you read that correctly. In fact, there is a 3.5-inch floppy with WinZip on it in the binder. But, he also had things like ULead video makers, Seagate hard drive utilities, Dragon Naturally Speaking (lol, the 1999 version is in here), PrintShop, and more. That's all well and good, but he would use certain utilities in ways that no one else would, and that was not always a good thing. I remember he tried to ZIP up his Windows folder once. He used some kind of "cleaner" utility to delete a "bunch of useless DLL files taking up space" that he then later called me to ask why his computer wasn't working correctly. He especially loved image programs. His favorite was "ACDSee" though he used a plethora of others as well.
And then, there were the sports games. He made the folks at EA Sports a LOT of money, let me tell you. He bought just about every EA Sports game they made: Tiger Woods, NHL, MLB, Madden, FIFA, NCAA Football (the one time they had it on PC), you name it. I think he even bought Cricket or Rugby or something (those have since disappeared from his binder, before i got hold of it). His desire for the games was not really to play the games themselves, but rather to MOD the games. He first started back with NHL '98. I remember this like it was yesterday. I came home from work, and he had been online all day (dial-up back then) downloading some kind of "Add-on" for his game. He learned where to put the files that would replace the original ones. In this case, he found arena files that would update all the in-game boards with the actual ads from the real-life counterparts. I have to admit, I thought it was awesome. We would play against each other in near-replica arenas. He didn't stop at boards, either. He downloaded crowds, uniforms, ice graphics, you name it. and, he didn't stop at hockey. FIFA was his all-time favorite to install these add-ons. He would search for add-ons and then hand me a list to download during my lunch at work. We had team kits, stadium updates, and at one point, he found the Spanish-language commentator files and had me download those so that he could play his game with Spanish commentators! haha! Oh, man that was a riot. Every sports game he bought, he would immediately install and start the hunt for modifications to enhance the game.
Looking through this binder, I find flight simulators, real-time simulations, pool, bowling, and casino games (even an autographed card from Annie Duke, no less!), the whole "CSI" series of games, "Splinter Cell," "Mafia," "GTA Vice City," and so much more.
I truly wish Dad would have been able to see games now. He would be flipping out over the latest EA Sports games, all the "Seek and Find" games available, 1st person shooters, and anything else he could download and find add-ons to change up. There are many things I miss about my father. One of the strongest, though, is being able to call him up or run up the hill and tell him about some new game we could play or some cool new add-on he'd enjoy. Every now and then, I get that urge and it stops me dead in my tracks that I have to remind myself he's moved on.
Mar 28, 2012
15 Years Later...
I have a stack of CDs/DVDs that came with various computer magazines. Some of them are from last year or close enough. Others, however, date back further. In the case of one such disc, MUCH further.
I have a 1997 PC Gamer CD entitled, "The Sports Spectacular" from 1997. It features such blockbusters as LinksLS Golf, SimGolf, FIFA97, NCAA Final Four, and many other fun programs.
The CD would not launch anything from inside Win7, so I jumped over to DOSBox for some help. I fired up LinksLS first because I can remember my Dad loading this on his computer back then, and we watched in awe of the incredible graphics.
The game itself actually played well on my almost-modern PC, if not a bit fast given the cycle speeds of today's computers. I'm sure I could tweak that a bit inside DOSBox if I wanted to. The game draws the screens in the same fashion as days of yore: The ground, the trees, the buildings, etc, all appear in their "turn" of the screen layout. It is very bizarre to see it unfold by today's standards. The graphics, though weirdly a mix of 2d and 3d, aren't the worst even 15 years later. The game is old-school playable. Hold the mouse as the power meter fills. Release. Click when the meter gets to the bottom. As I said, it is more than a tad faster today than back then. Timing was not my greatest suit - then or now. I did not finish the round. Or even the hole. I wanted some bacon. Oh, sorry, I've been listening to too much Jim Gaffigan lately.
Next, I fired up FIFA 97. This game ran horribly - jumps, jitters, weird camera angles. I had to play with different camera settings just to get the game to show me where the heck the ball was. And, did I remember the controls after 15 years? Of course not.
The screen shot, shrunken down the way it is, makes the game look way better than it looked while playing it. Characters were blocky and the ball was jagged. Of course, we had not heard of "anti-aliasing" in the days of DOS. At least, I hadn't. Once play started, it ran okay and the jitters settled a bit. Since I had no idea which way I was going, I managed to walk the ball into my own goal. Thus, Germany beat England as shown above. I did manage to figure out controls (arrow keys move, A,S,D, to pass, punt and kick, er well, you get the idea).
The DOS-based menu show what other demos, maps, add-ons, etc you could load:
I quit loading games after these two. The trip down memory lane was not quite the rosy adventure I had hoped for. Though, in a way, it was. Playing the games reminded me of playing games with my Dad. My Dad always supported my "computer habit" growing up. And, as often as he could, he kept up with me - playing the latest games, downloading software I had never heard of, calling me to fix his computer because he downloaded said software and it trashed his system. I can remember sitting next to him as we juked and jived down the field, battling each other for the ball. Hockey was our favorite, though. I was a keyboard guy and he loved playing with his multi-key keypad controller.
When I found this CD, I knew it would take me for a journey into my past. It just took me to a place I hadn't expected.
I have a 1997 PC Gamer CD entitled, "The Sports Spectacular" from 1997. It features such blockbusters as LinksLS Golf, SimGolf, FIFA97, NCAA Final Four, and many other fun programs.
The CD would not launch anything from inside Win7, so I jumped over to DOSBox for some help. I fired up LinksLS first because I can remember my Dad loading this on his computer back then, and we watched in awe of the incredible graphics.
The game itself actually played well on my almost-modern PC, if not a bit fast given the cycle speeds of today's computers. I'm sure I could tweak that a bit inside DOSBox if I wanted to. The game draws the screens in the same fashion as days of yore: The ground, the trees, the buildings, etc, all appear in their "turn" of the screen layout. It is very bizarre to see it unfold by today's standards. The graphics, though weirdly a mix of 2d and 3d, aren't the worst even 15 years later. The game is old-school playable. Hold the mouse as the power meter fills. Release. Click when the meter gets to the bottom. As I said, it is more than a tad faster today than back then. Timing was not my greatest suit - then or now. I did not finish the round. Or even the hole. I wanted some bacon. Oh, sorry, I've been listening to too much Jim Gaffigan lately.
Next, I fired up FIFA 97. This game ran horribly - jumps, jitters, weird camera angles. I had to play with different camera settings just to get the game to show me where the heck the ball was. And, did I remember the controls after 15 years? Of course not.
The screen shot, shrunken down the way it is, makes the game look way better than it looked while playing it. Characters were blocky and the ball was jagged. Of course, we had not heard of "anti-aliasing" in the days of DOS. At least, I hadn't. Once play started, it ran okay and the jitters settled a bit. Since I had no idea which way I was going, I managed to walk the ball into my own goal. Thus, Germany beat England as shown above. I did manage to figure out controls (arrow keys move, A,S,D, to pass, punt and kick, er well, you get the idea).
The DOS-based menu show what other demos, maps, add-ons, etc you could load:
I quit loading games after these two. The trip down memory lane was not quite the rosy adventure I had hoped for. Though, in a way, it was. Playing the games reminded me of playing games with my Dad. My Dad always supported my "computer habit" growing up. And, as often as he could, he kept up with me - playing the latest games, downloading software I had never heard of, calling me to fix his computer because he downloaded said software and it trashed his system. I can remember sitting next to him as we juked and jived down the field, battling each other for the ball. Hockey was our favorite, though. I was a keyboard guy and he loved playing with his multi-key keypad controller.
When I found this CD, I knew it would take me for a journey into my past. It just took me to a place I hadn't expected.
Nov 7, 2009
The memory-lane side of reconnecting on FaceBook
I recently reconnected with a childhood friend, Kim Smith, on FaceBook. It thought it was pretty cool to get back in touch with someone I hadn't seen in who knows how long. What I didn't know is that she seems to have a never-ending collection of photos that were taken at various times during our lives. For example, I am the skinny kid on the left in the photo below:
If memory serves, that picture was taken between her grandparents' house and my grandparents' house. You may be able to see the date: July 1979. I was ten. We played nearly every summer together whenever her folks would come over and my parents would take us to grandma and grandpas, which was pretty often. There are two memories that really stand out about us being kids and hanging out together back then.
The first is when we lived in my grandparents' basement. They had converted the basement into an apartment - living room, dining area, two bedrooms, kitchen, bathroom. Brian (on the right above) and I shared one room as our bedroom. I remember listening to the "Grease" album with Kim in our room. It was a lot of fun, and was one of those things that always stuck with me.
The other one is of us hanging out with her sister in her grandparents' basement listening to, don't shoot me (though I expect some laughter) "The Village People." I think we even had roller skates on, skating around their basement to the music.
Of course, she doesn't have just one picture from our younger days...
This one is from my older teen-aged days. This would be around 1986 or so, during my "messy hair" days. Others prefer to call it my "mullet" days. I don't even think I knew that word back then. I liked to wear my hair short in the front with a lot of gel to make it messy. The long hair was being grown out to eventually have a 'tail' made out of it. I had also planned to have the longest earring I could find. I am thankful THAT never materialized.
If memory serves, that picture was taken between her grandparents' house and my grandparents' house. You may be able to see the date: July 1979. I was ten. We played nearly every summer together whenever her folks would come over and my parents would take us to grandma and grandpas, which was pretty often. There are two memories that really stand out about us being kids and hanging out together back then.
The first is when we lived in my grandparents' basement. They had converted the basement into an apartment - living room, dining area, two bedrooms, kitchen, bathroom. Brian (on the right above) and I shared one room as our bedroom. I remember listening to the "Grease" album with Kim in our room. It was a lot of fun, and was one of those things that always stuck with me.
The other one is of us hanging out with her sister in her grandparents' basement listening to, don't shoot me (though I expect some laughter) "The Village People." I think we even had roller skates on, skating around their basement to the music.
Of course, she doesn't have just one picture from our younger days...

Some people have bashed FaceBook for being some kind of place that only desperate "would-have/should-have" dreamers and wishful thinkers hang out. I even know of one tech that blocks FaceBook at school based on the sole reason that his/her teachers don't need to be trying to rekindle old flames on school time. I agree with the last part, but FaceBook (or any truly 'social' network) is much, much more than that. For me, the images you see above are just two of the million reasons why I think the ideas behind sites like FaceBook make them incredible tools in today's world.
If you have pictures from your childhood and you've reconnected with folks on social networks, post the picture(s) out there and tag the folks. Trust me, they'll laugh, cry, and most importantly THANK YOU for doing it. But, mostly, they'll laugh at themselves. And, that is a wonderful gift.
Apr 20, 2009
40 Memories

Before I get started with my '40 memories" post, I woke up this morning to help Shan get some things scanned in for her and other teachers. She wished me a Happy Birthday and we got to scanning. When I got the kids up, they both told me Happy Birthday, too.
I don't normally listen to the radio when I drive - I prefer to listen to the iPod through the FM transmitter deal in my truck. But, I didn't feel like messing with all that this morning, and I had the local station playing. When they announced birthdays, my name was mentioned from the fine folks at the education co-op where I work. I thought it was very nice.
At the end of the birthday list, they draw a name to win a prize, and they drew my name! How cool is that!? My prize? a $5 gift certificate for the Western Sizzlin in Hope. I have mixed feelings about this. I'm happy I won, and I even scored a free meal out of the deal. Or did I? Actually, no. See, the meals are $6.99 and up. Yes, I realize I get my meal for $1.99+tax, but it still strikes me a bit sideways. I mean, why not give away a free meal, say up to $8 or something? The other issue is that we don't eat at Western Sizzlin. Frankly, it just hasn't been that good. We've one a time or two, mainly to see if things had gotten any better. They had a fire there a while back, and we have not been there since the remodeling (and I think they even have new ownership, if memory serves). I suppose this is a good excuse to go. So, later today, I'll run by the radio station to pick up my certificate.
The last time I won anything from a radio station, I was working in Northern Virginia for a computer retail/consulting company and happened to have the station tuned to 105.1. This scraggly, drunk-looking guy in a Santa suit walks in and before I could call security, he says, "Are you listening to 105?" I have no idea if that's what I'm listening to or not, I'm trying to decide if I need to deck the halls with you, buddy. He listens intently to the radio in the store and then to the headphones on his ears. I reach for the phone. He says, "You are a winner! You just won $105 dollars from Super105 (or whatever it was)!" I remember looking at him like he really was drunk, asking, "Really?" He reached into his 'bag' and pulled out a card, a media release form, and a cell phone. He called the station and sure enough, I had won. A few weeks later, I had a check for $105 in my hands. I bought a Garrard 6-disc CD changer. That was a big deal in 1986. We still have the thing, though one of the trays no longer works. Not bad for a piece of electronics that is more than 20 years old.

So, as I said, later today, I'll go pick up my gift certificate. Ironically, the station that I won it from is also 105, though it's 104.9... I sense a disturbance in the Force.
In honor of my 40th birthday, I thought it would be fun to list 40 things I remember. These will not be in any order, other than the order in which they popped into my head - though I will try to start with my earliest memories and work forward. Honestly, I'm not even sure I'll make it to 40 things with the way my mind works... And, I'll probably have to get Mom to fill in the blanks. Some may be funny, some painful, but they are the first 40 things that have come to mind:
- Yellow VW Bug we had when I was a kid
- One of our friends putting their hand through our glass door
- Getting on a bus for Sunday school or something
- Family reunions in Oakland (I think Oakland), outside of Pittsburgh
- Marci - first girlfriend (1st or 2nd grade)
- Penguins hockey game - first date (1st or 2nd grade w/Marci)
- Getting punched in the face by a girl (a friend's sister, 3rd grade)
- Eating little red berries, then puking my guts up from the 'medicine' I had to take because poison control told my mother to make me take it
- Going to the hospital because my parents filled our blow-up pool with enough chlorine chemicals to fill an Olympic-sized pool. Let's just say, that leaves a lasting impression on a young BOY - operative word there, folks!
- Having a blood clot in my throat, spewing up tons of blood. I don't even remember the whole story - must be a mental block
- Doing flips off the apartment pool diving board, and the time a 'friend' yelled "SHARK!" just as I launched once, causing me to land on my back. That was followed by a stream of cuss words which did not go over well, considering the young kids there
- Going to Geauga Lake, Sea World and Cedar Point for summer vacations when we'd visit my grandparents in Cleveland (Lakewood, actually), Ohio
- Drawing my first Chief Wahoo on poster board with the numbers of all the players on it for my grandfather (Paternal)
- Watching Bob Ross paint on PBS while sitting on the couch with my maternal grandfather
- My maternal grandmother scolding us for drinking a glass of milk AND having milk in our cereal
- My maternal grandmother making us eat peanut butter with butter sandwiches
- Eating St. Joseph's chewable aspirin mixed into my applesauce. To this day, I cannot eat applesauce without tasting that awful orange flavor of the pills
- Playing football and baseball with Dad, Uncle Bill, and everyone else on the hills in the back of my maternal grandparents' house
- Listening to the "Grease" soundtrack while trying to kiss Kim in my grandparents' basement. LOL, now THAT was funny - not then, but it is now... I was such a dork.
- Listening to the Village People in Kim's grandparents' basement
- Painting my face my face in High School for a pep rally. It was the only time I ever did that - never before, never again.
- Pushing Kim's (not the same one from the "Grease" album) yellow VW bug (not the one I had as a kid) up the hill after the Senior Formal with Dave
- Loretto Heights College - my first 'liberal arts' environment - I learned WAY too much that year!
- Going to University of Colorado - Boulder and majoring in socializing
- Getting a letter from UC-Boulder encouraging me to take time off to consider my collegiate career
- Michelle and Jen - the two girls I dated during those times
- Meeting Wallace (who went by Wally in those days) for the first time, and his aspirations to be President some day. I'd never met anyone that actually WANTED to be President one day
- Wally telling us the story about drinking the NyQuil
- Meeting Shan for the first time - the most beautiful woman I had ever met. I was drunk, my brother convinced me to go hang out with a bunch of girls he knew, and I spent the time picking at the carpet while Shan and her boyfriend at the time sat on her bed or couch or something. I made a great first impression. LOL!
- "Relieving Stress" in front of Russell Fine Arts - the first time Shan and I kissed
- The horrid, rundown trailer Brian and I lived in while going to Henderson State University
- Proposing to Shan at DeGray Lake after she had just awoke from the drive in from Little Rock, and her saying "NO" in her groggy state, then realizing what I had asked and saying "YES!"
- The miscarriage of our first child
- Tyler being born
- Driving from Prescott to Little Rock for about a year because I could not find a job locally
- Working at Southern Arkansas University
- Meeting Pat Ward at McDonald's several times while interviewing for the job in Camden
- The stress of trying to have a second child
- Emily being born
- Shan's love and forgiveness - the reason I am where I am today, who I am today. It may not sound like something for a list of memories, but when two people go through the things we have gone through, there are memories that God keeps clear in my mind to show me each and every day just how blessed I am.

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